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I’m Charlene Byars, and my passion is empowering women to fall in love with themselves and gain the confidence to attract the man of their dreams. Through my coaching, I help women feel fabulous, secure, and ready to embrace the exciting world of dating. I believe dating is a wonderful journey, and I’m here to guide you every step of the way to ensure you approach it with joy, confidence, and a sense of adventure and find the right man for you.

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For over 20 years, I've been a dating and relationship coach for 100s of women. I have helped these women find their person, heal from past break-ups, and level up their relationships with themselves and their lovers. 

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But I wasn’t always an expert. 

When I was little, all I saw were toxic relationships with controlling, dominant men. 

So of course, those were the type of guys I continued to attract! 

No one showed me what it was like to be in a healthy & loving relationship, so I spent years repeating the same relationship patterns trying to get the love and respect I wanted and deserved.

I even spent 23-years married to the wrong man because I believed that if I could just work hard at changing myself, that would be enough to change HIM. (Spoiler alert: it wasn’t). 

After I finally got the courage to leave that marriage, I set out on my own journey to find my epic love. 

I wanted to know it was possible for me to be in a kind and fun relationship where both the man and the woman felt loved and respected.

But I also knew, if I wanted to attract a different kind of relationship, then I needed to do something different.

So, I started shifting my perspective...

My mindset 
evolution for love:

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BEFORE:
Instead of waiting to be chosen by any man who came my way…

AFTER:
I got clear on who I wanted to choose, and what I wanted in a relationship, and what my deal-breakers were.
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BEFORE:
Instead of surrendering to old limiting beliefs and attracting the same toxic men…

AFTER:
I began the work of healing the wounds from past relationships and rewiring the old thought patterns keeping me stuck.
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BEFORE:
Instead of communicating with my partner by blowing things off or shutting down…

AFTER:
I learned how to share my intimate desires and biggest fears in a way that led to a deeper connection between us.

Once I looked inwards and started tapping into my feminine power, that’s when it all came together for me. That's when I became a relationship coach.

Today, I’m remarried to the most amazing man and I have the relationship of my dreams. I have a strong bond with my children and my bonus son. And I’m living a life of pleasure and fulfillment!

Here’s what I learned:

  • Understanding polarity and masculine/feminine power is what keeps a relationship growing and thriving.
  • Learning Conscious Dating will teach you how to lean back, release and have fun.
  • Feminine embodiment is a woman’s superpower.
  • Releasing patterns frees you from your limiting beliefs.
  • When it comes to love, it’s up to YOU to look inwards and clear what’s holding you back.
  • As a woman, you have the power to choose great men.
More About Charlene

As a successful, high-achieving woman, you have your shizz together.

Your career is thriving, you’re financially independent, you’re surrounded by a wonderful community (and maybe even a couple of kids).

But when it comes to men and relationships? Pfft. 

You’re trying your best to put yourself out there. 

You’re downloading dating apps, attending meet-up groups, dressing up for happy hours, and doing EVERYTHING you can to find your person.

But no matter what you do, the only guys you seem to attract are: 
  • The ghosters who keep you waiting for a text that’ll never come
  • The losers who can’t seem to get their act together
  • The narcissists whose egos are the size of America AND Africa combined
  • The players who string you along
  • The boring bros who make you prefer staying home alone

WTF?!! You need a relationship coach!

Even if you manage to get into a relationship, deep down you feel like something's missing. You need a relationship coach...

  • You struggle to communicate your needs & desires because, if you’re honest, you’re confused about what you really want. 
  • You’re afraid to advocate for yourself in case it turns him off, so you blow things off instead of speaking up. 
  • You’re scared to be vulnerable and show the real you in case you get hurt…so you shut him out and end up losing him anyways. 
  • And once again, you’re left with the sting of yet another broken relationship. 

The more this frustrating cycle repeats, the more you find yourself torn between:

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I really want to share my life with someone.
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F*ck that - I’m too independent to need a man anyway!
relationship coach Charlene

Why do you need a relationship coach?

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Sometimes we find ourselves fully in our power in one area, but not in others. When we find ourselves in that place, sometimes a new perspective is exactly what we need. By looking at our life through a different lens, we can actually make a choice about how that area looks to us. We no longer have to be locked into a perspective that doesn’t serve us.

I have coached many, many women and I have seen it all.

It’s my job to hold space for you while you move through the spaces of empowerment. Whether it’s old patterns that you want to be free of, or old beliefs that need to be let go of, I am here assist you in finding your true joy. Because there is no reason for you to live any other way than how you truly want your life to be.

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I now love dating and meeting new people and am having the time of my life.

So much of who I am today and the confidence and the freedom I feel and the pleasure I’m having is because of Charlene.

Before taking Charlene‘s program I felt completely disempowered and had no confidence in dating and I was attracting the same type of guy.

After her program it all completely changed for me. Charlene is brilliant and seriously is the best coach ever! I feel completely empowered in who I am. I now love dating and meeting new people and am having the time of my life. Now that I understand the secrets to being an empowered single woman, I absolutely love being me!

If you are considering working with Charlene, don’t hesitate and GO FOR IT! You will get exactly what you need and so much more! Thank you, Charlene, for completely igniting my life! I’m forever grateful!

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I have fallen in love with myself.

Because of Charlene I now see life as I am. And it is beautiful because for the first time in my entire life, I have actually fallen in love with myself! I am free. I am happy. I love life. I am finally living!

 

If you’re ever kind of thinking about taking one of Charlene’s courses or hiring her as an empowerment coach, do it!

I swear to you, she will change your life forever. She will take you off the life support you’ve been clinging to your whole life and you will start to breathe on your own for the first time.

I adore you, Charlene! I am forever grateful to you for helping me breathe again.

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