CHOSEN A program for single women ready to be chosen, adored and deeply desired by devoted, masculine men.

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“If you want to make a change and find that love of your life, then Charlene’s your gal. She understands relationships and she understands women like nobody I have ever met! I feel like I'm a very empowered woman after taking her program!” ―Elizabeth

relationship coach Charlene

Girlfriend, you are worthy of magnificent love!

❤ A divine love with someone you can call your best friend. 
❤ A magical love that is full of deep intimacy, connection, and joy. 
 A wholehearted love where you are fully seen, cherished, and free to be yourself.  

THIS is the love you’ve always dreamed about...

But when you open your eyes and look around, this reality is nowhere to be found.

As a successful, high-achieving woman, you have your shizz together.

Your career is thriving, you’re financially independent, you’re surrounded by a wonderful community (and maybe even a couple of kids).

But when it comes to men and relationships? Pfft. 

You’re trying your best to put yourself out there. 

You’re downloading dating apps, attending meet-up groups, dressing up for happy hours, and doing EVERYTHING you can to find your person.

But no matter what you do, the only guys you seem to attract are: 
  • The ghosters who keep you waiting for a text that’ll never come
  • The losers who can’t seem to get their act together
  • The narcissists whose egos are the size of America AND Africa combined
  • The players who string you along
  • The boring bros who make you prefer staying home alone


And even if you manage to get into a relationship, deep down you know you’re not leveling up.

The more this frustrating cycle repeats, the more you find yourself torn between:

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I really want to share my life with someone.
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F*ck that - I’m too independent to need a man anyway!

And while everyone else around you is settling down and finding “the one”, you find yourself believing:

“Maybe there’s something wrong with me.”

“Maybe this type of love just isn’t meant for me.”

Maybe it’s easier to stuff down my desire for a man.”

Goddess! Let me stop you right there because it’s time to get real!

That yearning you have for a deep, soulful, intimate relationship? 

That isn’t going away. 

It ain’t ever going away.  

It’s wired into our DNA to be in relationship with one another.

Finding love is a human experience that’s coded in our biology, imprinted on our hearts, and pulsing through our veins. 

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So don’t you dare try to squash that desire down, okay?!

The truth is, there’s NOTHING wrong with you.

You are absolutely lovable and worthy of being cherished.  

Everything you need to attract and be in a beautiful relationship is already INSIDE you. 

It’s just never been activated! 

And that’s not your fault, girlfriend. 

When you were young, no one handed you a relationship manual.

No one showed you how to CHOOSE the right man even though this is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make. 

No one taught you how to COMMUNICATE intimately & vulnerably with your partner so you feel seen and safe. 

No one revealed how to CONNECT to your full feminine power and be your most EMPOWERED self so you can have unshakeable confidence in your relationships. 

You’ve always been left to figure it out and pick up the pieces of your broken heart on your own…

Until Now. 

◆ INTRODUCING ◆ CHOSEN A program for single women ready to be chosen, adored and deeply desired by devoted, masculine men.

Chosen Masterclass to find the love of your life

CHOSEN isn’t JUST a course or a coaching program. ◆ ◆ ◆

It’s an intimate 3-month journey designed to equip you with the tools, personalized attention, and sacred sisterhood you need to go from:

Feeling completely disempowered in dating & relationships → To stepping into a POWERFUL love with yourself and others.

Together, we are going to bust through your stumbling blocks, heal the wounds from your past relationships, and get real about what you really want out of love and life.

Effortlessly attract your soul-aligned partner while repelling the wrong ones, and experience the most aligned, fulfilling relationship of your dreams

Wondering if CHOSEN is right for you?

You and I are a match made in love goddess heaven if you’re ready to:
  • Stop attracting the wrong guys and start manifesting your soul-aligned partner
  • Start generating an abundance of self-love and appreciation and become a fully empowered woman
  • Release the deep wounds that keep you stuck and leave old patterns behind
  • Learn the tools and skills you need to be in the most aligned, juicy, and sexy relationship of your dreams.

It's time to grow past your past to attract great men!

I now love dating and meeting new people and am having the time of my life.

So much of who I am today and the confidence and the freedom I feel and the pleasure I’m having is because of Charlene.

Before taking Charlene‘s program I felt completely disempowered and had no confidence in dating and I was attracting the same type of guy.

After her program it all completely changed for me. Charlene is brilliant and seriously is the best coach ever! I feel completely empowered in who I am. I now love dating and meeting new people and am having the time of my life. Now that I understand the secrets to being an empowered single woman, I absolutely love being me!

If you are considering working with Charlene, don’t hesitate and GO FOR IT! You will get exactly what you need and so much more! Thank you, Charlene, for completely igniting my life! I’m forever grateful!


I have fallen in love with myself.

Because of Charlene I now see life as I am. And it is beautiful because for the first time in my entire life, I have actually fallen in love with myself! I am free. I am happy. I love life. I am finally living!

If you’re ever kind of thinking about taking one of Charlene’s courses or hiring her as an empowerment coach, do it!

I swear to you, she will change your life forever. She will take you off the life support you’ve been clinging to your whole life and you will start to breathe on your own for the first time. I adore you, Charlene! I am forever grateful to you for helping me breathe again.


Women that Charlene has guided to love:

Meet Your Divine Guide

Hey, I’m Charlene Byars! Leading Relationship Expert
Certified Empowerment Coach
Women’s Revolutionary Mentor

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For over 20 years, I've coached 100s of women on how to find their person, heal from a past break-up, and level up their relationship with themselves and their lover. 

But I wasn’t always an expert. 

When I was little, all I saw were toxic relationships with controlling, dominant men. 

So of course, those were the type of guys I continued to attract! 

No one showed me what it was like to be in a healthy & loving relationship, so I spent years repeating the same relationship patterns trying to get the love and respect I wanted and deserved.

I even spent 23-years married to the wrong man because I believed that if I could just work hard at changing myself, that would be enough to change HIM. (Spoiler alert: it wasn’t). 

After I finally got the courage to leave that marriage, I set out on my own journey to find my epic love. 

I wanted to know it was possible for me to be in a kind and fun relationship where both the man and the woman felt loved and respected.

But I also knew, if I wanted to attract a different kind of relationship, then I needed to do something different.

So, I started shifting my perspective...

My mindset evolution for love:

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Instead of waiting to be chosen by any man who came my way…

I got clear on who I wanted to choose, and what I wanted in a relationship, and what my deal-breakers were.
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Instead of surrendering to old limiting beliefs and attracting the same toxic men…

I began the work of healing the wounds from past relationships and rewiring the old thought patterns keeping me stuck.
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Instead of communicating with my partner by blowing things off or shutting down…

I learned how to share my intimate desires and biggest fears in a way that led to a deeper connection between us.

Once I looked inwards and started tapping into my feminine power, that’s when it all came together for me.

Today, I’m remarried to the most amazing man and I have the relationship of my dreams. I have a strong bond with my children and my bonus son. And I’m living a life of pleasure and fulfillment!

Here’s what I learned:

  • Understanding polarity and masculine/feminine power is what keeps a relationship growing and thriving.
  • Learning Conscious Dating will teach you how to lean back, release and have fun.
  • Feminine embodiment is a woman’s superpower.
  • Releasing patterns frees you from your limiting beliefs.
  • When it comes to love, it’s up to YOU to look inwards and clear what’s holding you back.
  • As a woman, you have the power to choose great men.

And I'm going to show you EXACTLY how you can tap into that power, become your most empowered self, and attract your own epic love story–while avoiding the pitfalls so many women tumble into.

Here’s what you get when you join me inside Chosen:

Module 1: Embrace the Mega Shift Coming Your Way

Module 2: Detox the Pain and Let Love Rain

Module 3: Create your Heart's True Desire

Module 4: Make it Sparkle (with the secret ingredient)

Module 5: Set Your Romance on Fire

Module 6: Rise into Your Goddess Power

More of my client success stories...

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One last thing… 

If you’re hanging out down here, I’m guessing it’s because it feels scary to take a chance and make an investment in yourself. 

And maybe there’s a tiny nudge telling you to “put this off” or “deal with it later.”

Here’s what I want you to know…

It took me over 23 years and a failed marriage before I fully learned and believed that nothing was wrong with me, and I was absolutely loveable and worthy of being cherished and respected.

But it took me reaching a breaking point before I finally decided to put myself first and go after what my heart desires. 

I don’t want that for you. 

I don’t want you to reach the breaking point or wait 5, 10 or 20 years until you get the love you deserve! 

Mama, I truly believe you are worthy of loving and being loved in return. 

And now I want YOU to believe that. 

  • I want you to fall head over heels in love with yourself. 
  • I want you to have a loving, healthy, sexy relationship with a man who treats you like the Goddess you are.
  • I want to help you avoid the pitfalls that trap hundreds of women in loveless, unfulfilling relationships. 

And I’m going to spend the next 12 weeks doing everything I can to help you fall completely in love with yourself, embody your full woman power, and be in the perfect, soul-aligned relationship of your dreams. 

The choice is yours. 

Are you ready to be chosen?

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